Monday, October 23, 2006

doing okay, all things considered

well, i made it through shoulder surgery, hospitazation and home to my wonderful house, roxy the chihuahua's extatic joy, and a small bit of indepedance. and now, after a couple of days at home, i'm headed back to a rehab hosital.

and i am not wildly happy about it, either. but i see no other option. i am unstable on my feet, and in pain and on medication. i can only face so much, and struggling to live left handedly with all the above problems.

so when the visiting nurse finally showed up this afternoon there was a very,very small flash of relief when she said she thought i was too much of a risk to be alone right now. there was also rage and grief and something close to murderous frustration. i spent weeks preparing for surgery, and my time in the hospital, and i'd asked for a consultation from o.t. before i left. i was completely honest with him, and he was either stupid, or not listening to me.

and the visitingt nurses should have gotten someone out here on sat, not mon late afternoon, espicially since i called then each day, requesting help.[what part of "i need help" did they not hear? i also called other visiting                 nurses associations and the hospital, and nobody offered so much as a suggrestion. very,very frustrating!

so i'll be gone for another week or so, but i'll be woking hard to get home asap. and that's the news frm here in sotheastern connecticut.

blessings, margo

 

4 comments:

lisa41076 said...

Margo, glad you are doing ok, thinking of you and sending Huggggggggggggggggsssssssssssssssssssss and praying for a quick recovery, Love Ya Lisa

dbaumgartner said...

Hi sweetie.  I will miss you for a week.  But I know you will come back even stronger.  

Hugs my dear sweet friend.

Deb

luvmort said...

Think of it this way, left-handed people use the right side of the brain, the creative and free thinking areas.  So, now you are in your right mind, like me!

Get well.  Thinking of you.  

wldconnie said...

you are better off where you can be looked after for the time being. be patient and get well soon love conniex