tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5173945383482633147.post5902485332012269358..comments2023-10-21T03:12:27.671-07:00Comments on MagogoS's Musings:I'm Still Changing: Crying Jags, Anyone?Magogo's Musings, toohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09282188854825790599noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5173945383482633147.post-51948568692391958352005-07-02T14:19:00.000-07:002005-07-02T14:19:00.000-07:00Margo, I found this so oddly beautiful. I grew up...Margo, I found this so oddly beautiful. I grew up in a household where tears were an accepted part of feeling. So, I am not reluctant to cry when I feel the need, but the past few days I have awakened with tears in my eyes and twice I have gone outside to cry just because I found something beautiful. And like you I feel 'oddly better'. Often I think I am just getting too old for the things I see, but then another time I will feel I have been given a gift ... the ability to feel something so deeply that the tears reflect the beauty and happiness that life has shared with me. Change is frightening, but often wonderful. You have to undergo the change to be able to stay here with us and we need you. This change will keep you here. I am selfish ... I want your change for myself. PennieAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5173945383482633147.post-8410085807453510892005-07-03T17:31:00.000-07:002005-07-03T17:31:00.000-07:00I hope your weekend went well. xxRacheI hope your weekend went well. xxRacheAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5173945383482633147.post-50684385348658477692005-07-03T18:08:00.000-07:002005-07-03T18:08:00.000-07:00You are grieving the "old" you and the "old" lifes...You are grieving the "old" you and the "old" lifestyle, and you don't yet know what the "new" you or the "new" lifestyle will entail. I think you are very brave.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5173945383482633147.post-70163951454579032452005-07-03T22:41:00.000-07:002005-07-03T22:41:00.000-07:00Margo,Remember when I first had my surgery...how s...Margo,<br>Remember when I first had my surgery...how sad, depressed<br>and downright miserable I was? Babe, your going to go <br>through it too...plan on it. It's awful. But listen...I'm not even<br>two weeks out yet, and I am feeling so much better. <br>Even with the diarrhea...I'm feeling better.<br>Even with the nausea...which is MUCH Less now...I feel better.<br>Sweetie, you will too. <br>Tell Rene to get plenty of kleenex, and be prepared...but know<br>that I am in your corner...and like I promised...we are gonna<br>BOTH get through this!<br>Much love, and support!<br>ConnieAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5173945383482633147.post-52326060033154169242005-07-04T05:48:00.000-07:002005-07-04T05:48:00.000-07:00Hi Margo,I might be wrong but it seems like you ar...Hi Margo,<br><br>I might be wrong but it seems like you are actually cleansing yourself, your soul and your spirit before your surgery.<br><br>If I were there I would give you a great big hug and fix you a nice cup of tea.<br><br>You enjoy your dinner and hang on to the notion that you are going to do great on July 11th. You have a bunch of folks in J Land rooting for you.<br><br>DebAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5173945383482633147.post-29794517688686927102005-07-05T00:03:00.000-07:002005-07-05T00:03:00.000-07:00It's your party and you can cry if you want to...It's your party and you can cry if you want to! A good cry is good for you. :-) I see Connie is back...off to check on her progress.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5173945383482633147.post-84987820595613516932005-07-05T04:19:00.000-07:002005-07-05T04:19:00.000-07:00the sadness, Margo, is part of the joy. that'...the sadness, Margo, is part of the joy. that's the price we pay. but you UNDERSTAND that, don't you?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com